Hoping that everyone had a wonderful Mother’s Day yesterday. My mom and I picked up some Chinese/Vietnamese take-out yesterday to have a mother-daughter lunch at my house, and when we returned home with our food treasures I caught sight of a little something bright and cheerful sitting on my desk in my office.

I’ve been ooooohing and ahhhhhing over the brightly colored pots of Gerbera Daisies we’ve been seeing at the store this Spring, and someone was paying attention. I had a sneaking suspicion that a cheerful little plant on my desk would make my typical workday more enjoyable, and it’s turning out to be true.

Love it when I’m right like that. (But I’m always right. Right?)

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I’d love to say that things have been so still and serene around here that it inspired me to create this kit. The reality is that this last month before school ends has been so busy and it’s so mentally taxing (for me) to keep track of it all that I have a greater appreciation for the still, simple moments when they do arrive.

Where’s the pause button, indeed.

Still Life is 20% off through Sunday, May 20, 2012.

Free With Purchase Offer | Still Life Page Clusters

I love creating these. There’s something very freeing about creating little page clusters with no particular photo or story to guide you. I highly recommend it, just for anyone.

These ones are already done for you, though.

These coordinating page clusters are FREE with the purchase of the Still Life Digital Kit through 5/20/2012. No coupon necessary, but you do have to add both products to your cart in order to have the element pack zero out. I can’t stress that part enough.

If you get too excited and click too fast, though, just drop me an email.

Inspiration From The Flock

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On Monday Nicholas and I had a conversation in the car about how it’s hard to find things to do outside at his dad’s house when it’s only you and one other kid, and then today I was sharing the conversation with Tom and gained some more valuable insight into what Tom: The Early Years looked like.

me: He said all they really do is play basketball, because it’s not like you can play tag with just two kids.

Tom: You know what they could play? Dig a hole in the dirt. Or they could play crawl into the bushes and find cool stuff. That’s the kind of stuff my brother and I played. Or they can play throw dirt at each other or try to tip things over in the garage.

me: Try to tip things over in the garage?

Tom: Yea, I’m sure they have things in the garage over there. GET IN THERE AND TRY TO TIP THAT STUFF OVER!

me:  That sounds like a good way to ensure that no one tells you to go play outside anymore unsupervised.

Tom: No, they’ll just shut the garage door and lock it. Then you get to play try to kick the garage door open.

me: Continue…

Tom: You just keep kicking the garage door, trying to break that thing in. Then you go inside and complain about how your leg hurts, and they’re like why does your leg hurt? and you say from kicking that garage door open.

me: Then you run like hell when your dad stands up. And the best part? Now you have that third person for a game of tag.

Tom: Exactly.

me: Except Dad is “it.” And there’s going to be hell to pay if he catches you. It’s a high stakes game of tag.

Tom: See? We just came up with about 20 things that two kids can do outside together right here. They’re just not trying hard enough.

me: Kids nowadays. No imagination.

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Inspiration

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Q | I just started blogging my scrapbooking. (Just got accepted to a creative team, yay!) I’m struggling a bit with balancing privacy and visibility. Up to now my scrapbook layouts pretty much just went up on Facebook for my friends & family to see. But now that I have a blog and a brand new Twitter account I’m a little freaked out. Real name here, pics of family there, and potentially crazy people around every turn! How do you manage it?

A | My personal information was a very closely guarded secret for me for a lot of years, having been “heavily embedded” in the Internet since back in the pay-by-the-hour for AOL days. At this point I share quite a bit of personal information in a lot of different areas online, where people can see it, and the biggest reason for that shift was my involvement in the scrapbooking community. I had to ask myself what I really wanted out of this experience and it really boiled down to this:

• I saw great potential, through memory keeping, for both personal and creative growth.
• I have always believed that the best way to grow is through our connections with other people, whether they’re like-minded or polar opposites.
• There are no large groups of digital scrapbookers in my area (that I know of).

I can document our lives and my innermost thoughts without sharing a single morsel of it with anyone outside my close circle of friends and family, if having shelves of finished albums were my only goal. However, I reached a point in my life where I felt as though I wanted more, and where felt as though there was great potential for something more deeply-rewarding within this community.

It has not let me down.

The rewards have far exceeded any concessions I have made on the personal side, but you have to answer that question for yourself. Sharing so much of my personal life on the Internet has required that I put a lot of trust in people who are, effectively, strangers. In an ideal world we would all be able to convert all of our closest girlfriends and family members to digital scrapbookers and we could grow as artists with one another. I’ve been largely unsuccessful at accomplishing this, so far. Even if I did manage to get them all on board with the idea I have found deeper pools of trust, support and self-awareness in some of my online relationships than I have in many of my “real-life” relationships. I don’t think I could walk away from that.

That being said, I do have a few lines in the sand as far as what I will and won’t share publicly in the name of scrapbooking. One example is that I remove (via cropping or creative Photoshop retouching) any instances of my son’s last name on any pages I post online. He and I have different last names and in the rare instances where his appears in a photo (school projects) or in my journaling (references to his dad’s side of the family, for instance) I remove them. I do the same for any references to his school, including his teachers’ names, which I abbreviate in my journaling.

On purely a respect level, I don’t post anything about him that he wouldn’t freely admit to another person or  any photos that I know he would be uncomfortable with other people seeing. This means I have some pages in our printed albums that have never been seen online. For example any pages that have photos or journaling that deal with something he has struggled with emotionally, medically or academically – those are just for us. He’s also a very modest kid so he has always had full creative control over any summer photos I use of him without a shirt on (swimming photos). If you go through my online galleries you’ll notice that the majority of those pages feature closely-framed head shots or photos where he was in deeper water, but he has approved a few wider shots on an individual, purely arbitrary “I look awesome in that one” basis.

Like this photo will forever be one of my favorite summer photographs of him:

You also will never find a photo of him in the bathtub, at any age, anywhere in my galleries – that’s just a no fly zone for him whether he was 6 months old or 6 years old.

I follow the same rules for pages about myself or my husband, but … for different reasons. I don’t know if you could see photos of me in the bathtub and still want to hang out. I don’t think we have that kind of relationship.

And it goes without saying that I don’t post on my blog or any social media site about a vacation we’re on or about anything else that would create any sort of security-related fiasco for ourselves. Like you’ll never see me posting photos of my diamond tiara room or my Scrooge McDuck-style vault filled with gold coins and priceless artifacts.

That would just be irresponsible of me.

What Say You? Everybody In!

If you have any advice, tips, tricks or encouragement to offer on this topic please weigh-in in the comments below. I know everyone has different perspectives on online privacy and where they draw the line when it comes to scrapbooking, specifically. I’d love to hear yours!

Or if you have any other questions about … anything .. that you’d like me to ramble on about? You can post those here or shoot me an email if you’re bashful.

I sent a quick email off to The Flock and received these answers:

CHRISTINE | Probably not an answer she wants to hear, but if she’s concerned about privacy, then she may need to reconsider being on a creative team. The whole purpose of the creative team is to showcase and  market the designer’s products.  The photos/layouts would be posted everywhere.  She doesn’t need to use her real name though.  And nobody needs to know where she lives.  I have seen people post layouts with their kids’ faces blurred out.  Really NOT a big fan of that.  To me it totally distracts from the layout and you might as well not post it publicly.  The blurred faces actually sort of freaks me right out.  I’m staring at THAT instead of looking at how pretty the layout is.

ALEXIS | I used to blog my scrapbook layouts (and I still would, but am lazy, too!) but honestly I don’t think that many friends and family see my blog. Unfortunately that is the nature of the beast (the Internet). I AM careful about NOT posting my location (which is why I cannot understand the appeal of Foursquare), but for the most part I am an open book. But then again, I also don’t have my own kids to think about. :/

Metro began as a little, doodled car in my notebook with a swirly cloud of “dust” behind it – and grew into so much more. I started off with a few items for pages about boys and their toys, then added items for documenting the places we go and things we do out-and-about in our everyday lives or on vacation.

Or you could just sit at your computer making little cityscapes of your own all afternoon. I won’t judge.

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Inspiration From The Flock (and the Cheery-Os!)

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On Android

Q |  I’m sure I missed this, but have you said what kind of tablet you have? I’m in the market for one and yours looks fantastic. And most importantly to me, I know you are not an apple girl. I’m not either and I want to stick with windows/android. Anyway, I’d love to know what tablet you have and if it syncs up with your phone or computer?

A | I have an Asus Transformer (TF-101) which is the previous generation of their tablet (the Transformer Prime TF-201) is the current generation. The reason I chose the Asus was because there’s an available keyboard dock that turns the entire thing into a 10″ netbook of sorts. As for synchronizing, most of my “things” are cloud-based at this point so everything is accessible across all my devices. I’m heavily entrenched in Google as far as email and calendar go, so that’s all integrated into the OS for me. For transferring of individual files I can hook the tablet up via USB to my computer, or it has an SD card slot so I can bring files along with me that way. I mainly rely on Dropbox for files I want to access on multiple devices, though.

Q | Loved Peppermint’s pick this week – my new Android phone will be arriving soon and I would love it if Peppermint would make a list of all her favorite Android apps. Pretty please!

A |  I download and try out a lot of apps (because I hate to think that I might miss out on something awesome) then I wind up uninstalling the majority of them because I don’t actually use them. The ones that are heavily used and that I couldn’t manage without are:

• Dolphin Browser – I use it instead of the stock browser (which is Chrome) on both my phone and my tablet because I use LastPass to handle most of my passwords and it just integrates so nicely with the Dolphin Browser. Also I can set it up to always access the desktop versions of websites instead of defaulting to the mobile one. I hate mobile sites (even though I have one on this site). Dolphin Browser also has a feature called “Sonar” that lets me web browse via voice recognition, which blows Nicholas’ mind, and also it has screen “gestures” that I can program so that I can draw something on my screen and have it assigned to a bookmark. I don’t like typing on a touch screen that much, so these features eliminate a lot of that for me.
• Feedly – I use Feedly as my RSS reader (it syncs with Google Reader) on every device – computer, phone & tablet. Lately my phone is where I manage to catch up on the majority of my blog reading since I always have it on me when I find myself with some spare time.
• Dropbox – to keep files accessible between all my devices, especially photos taken with my phone or tablet. I have auto-upload enabled for all photos and videos, so a few seconds after I take the photo I can access it on my computer.
• Evernote – if you’re not an Evernote user this will be useless, but I have all my recipes stored in Evernote, so I use this app a lot when I’m at the grocery store and want to look at the ingredient list for something or for when I’m in the kitchen actually cooking.
• Gentle Alarm – there may be dozens of other alarm clock apps available, but I’ve used this one since I got my phone and have never had any complaints about it. My phone is also my alarm clock, since it charges on my nightstand every night while I sleep. The main things that I love about Gentle Alarm are that it allows me to use my own music as the alarm (either an individual track or a playlist I have set up on my phone) and it has a “fade in” setting that makes the alarm start out at a very low volume and gradually build. When I DO manage to sleep, which can be a bit touch and go for me, I don’t appreciate being startled awake. Plus I have a husband who is on a different schedule than I am and I’m a very light sleeper, so I wake up even when the music is still really faint. Plus it’s always more pleasant to wake up to one of my favorite songs.
• SwiftKeyX Keyboard – Frankly the most intuitive keyboard I’ve used, and I’ve tried several on my phone. I’m not a fan of the stock touch keyboard on my DroidX, and I’m slightly more pleased with Swype, but SwiftKeyX has really amazing auto-complete that saves me a ton of keystrokes (and it’s constantly learning, so it’s hip to my typical vocabulary). Plus the voice recognition is nothing short of brilliant, which is what tips the scales for me. I rely on that voice input a lot, because (as I said above) I’m not a fan of touch screen typing. I’m fast at it, especially with this keyboard, but I still like to take the lazy way out. (On my tablet I use Thumb Keyboard, because SwiftKeyX didn’t have a tablet version yet. Now they do, but I’m used to the other one.)
• TweetDeck – I use the desktop version to manage my Twitter account, so I also use it on my devices. If you use HootSuite they have an app, also. I used TweetDeck, switched to HootSuite for a while, then moved back to TweetDeck. I’m not great with change. I use Facebook’s app for Facebook, but overall I don’t check in a ton on social media with my phone or tablet. They’re sort of my safe, quiet place.
• Zedge - I like regular, non-song, short and mellow ringtones. So I use the search term “Business Notifications” in Zedge and it brings up tons of options that are only a couple of seconds long and very inconspicuous. If you’re into funkier ringtones they have plenty of those, too. All of them free and easy to download and activate right from within the app.
• Jewels Star – I have to throw one game in, and games change over time for me. A member of The Flock (pointing at Becky Derby) is a fellow Android user and from time to time we sabotage one another’s lives by recommending a particular game that’s consuming our days. This is the latest game that she sent me a heads up on, and the amount of time I spend playing it (to get THREE STARS ON EVERY LEVEL) is really not something I’m proud of, but everyone has their vices.

On Food

Q | I want to know what four recipes you always keep ingredients on hand for? Coming up with ideas is the hardest part for me! I would love some of your ideas!

A | This one is from Episode 38 of The Digi Show where we discussed our “Life Hacks” and I said that I had 4 recipes that are “go to recipes” for me on busy nights, and I try to keep ingredients on hand for at least two of them at any given time and at this point they’re so embedded in my life that I can make any of them from memory.

The reason they’re versatile is because they use a lot of shelf-stable ingredients, they use up leftover portions of more perishable items used in other recipes, and the last two especially can be varied up to use whatever meat or veggies I happen to have on hand. We’re not a family of picky eaters, so your mileage may vary with these:

• Spaghetti with Artichoke Hearts and Tomatoes (via The Pioneer Woman)  - one of the few recipes I make that uses canned anything, but it’s super easy for me to keep a couple of cans of artichoke hearts and diced tomatoes in the pantry. We always have pasta of some sort, and I also keep heavy cream on hand perpetually because it’s an ingredient in a lot of recipes I make. This recipe uses up any leftover heavy cream I may have from other recipes, so I add it to the menu in an effort to be frugal and not toss that out. It’s also meat-free (but not vegetarian!) so it’s cheap and easy to make.
• Breakfast for Dinner – a family favorite. We almost always have eggs, bacon and baking staples on hand for this particular pancake recipe (except I use butter, margarine is evil) or these Swedish thin pancakes if I have leftover fruit to use up (I add a teaspoon of vanilla to the batter and it’s exactly like I remember from my childhood). I never make breakfast for actual breakfast, I don’t like heavy breakfasts. Perfect dinner fare, though.
• Buffalo Turkey Burgers with Blue Cheese Dressing (from Rachel Ray’s 365 No Repeats cookbook) – I stock up on ground turkey or ground chicken whenever it’s on sale, and we always have celery and green onions around because I use them in a lot of other recipes. I use Marzetti Ultimate Blue Cheese dressing because we always have it on hand. This is just an all around great poultry burger recipe, and for Nicholas I omit the hot sauce bath at the end and put regular burger fixings on his. For those who are anti-blue-cheese, ranch dressing or plain sour cream are fine, too. The most I ever have to do for this recipe is stop at the store for hamburger buns, which we don’t keep on hand. (If you’re feeling Greek, you can make these without the hot sauce and top them with some feta cheese, red onion and cucumber slices and kalamata bruschetta. If you’re feeling Asian you can add some minced ginger and teriyaki sauce to the meat and top with broccoli slaw tossed with a little lime juice, minced ginger and teriyaki. It’s really adaptable.) The only thing I will say is different about this online recipe as opposed to the original – and I feel like it’s a big deal – is that it’s not just any two stalks of celery – it’s two of the small ones from the VERY inside of the bunch. The ones that are really light yellow and mostly leaf. Chop up just the leafy bits from two of those inner stalks – that’s where the good stuff is at.
• Thai Peanut Satay – I’m insane for peanut sauces. As far as I’m concerned any recipe with peanut butter in it is a good recipe.  This one is good for using up random vegetables that are nearing their demise, like broccoli or carrots. I don’t include all the vegetables in the recipe, I just toss in whatever is around. I always have these shelf-stable Asian ingredients on hand (including the Sriracha – it’s my go-to heat for most recipes, Asian and Mexican alike). The only wild card is the ginger root, so this recipe makes it into the rotation when I have ginger root leftover from another recipe. I’ve made it with chicken, beef and shrimp. I have no complaints about any of them.

On Shadowing

Q | I love your “Mind Blowing Drop Shadow Tutorial” and have it printed out on my desk because I was wearing the bookmark out! The one thing you don’t really talk about is how you shadow things like lace, loosely woven fabrics and wispy things like tulle and feathers (specifically the tulle in your Worn collab with Sahlin Studio, which I can’t manage to get a realistic shadow on). Any tricks for those?

Yup! But I’m hoping you’re a Photoshop user, because I’m not entirely sure if these same options are available in PSE. (These are the settings for the “Lace & Fabric” layer style in my Shadow Like Me Styles, though, so hopefully those work in PSE!)

For tulle, lace, and “light wispy things”, first I apply a drop shadow with these settings:

Blend Mode: Linear Burn
Color: I use #2c1901 but whatever color you use is fine
Opacity: (varies) 15~30%
Distance: (varies) 10~20px
Size: 10px

Then I add a second Outer Glow layer effect with these settings:

Blend Mode: Color Burn
Opacity: (varies) 20~30%
Color: I use #2c1901 again
Technique: Softer
Spread: 0%
Size: (varies) 10~35%

That Outer Glow is what makes it yummy.

Got Questions?

Let ‘em fly! Hopefully I have answers!

One of my (many) faults is that I will over-complicate things, and it’s probably easy to see how that would have the tendency to infiltrate my business and personal life in insidious ways.

I’ve been a daily planner junkie for most of my adult life – both out of necessity and unbridled geekery. I’ve relied on a number of different methods to keep tasks organized, from a piece of plain notebook paper to feature-rich software. For the past couple of years I’ve relied almost exclusively on electronic methods, with the occasional scrap of paper thrown in.

For my business I use software called Swift To Do List for a number of reasons, none of which are particularly relevant to this post. Despite having used the software for a couple of years now I have never felt as though I had it set up in a way that really worked for me. My task lists would get out of hand and overly complex, bogged down in a bit of a hybrid mixture between David Allen’s GTD system and a mixture of other tricks that have worked for me personally in the past. But when I’d load up my To Do list every morning it seemed like I needed to skim through the entire thing in order to make sure that the most important things were “bubbling up” to the top. I didn’t have faith in my system, things had fallen through the cracks before.

Despite adding various toggles for the priority of a specific task, despite adding due dates and start dates, and despite the fact that I would assign them to specific areas of my business – the entire thing felt cumbersome, and so the worst happened: I started to avoid my task list altogether.

That’s a dangerous place for me to be, because I suffer from “shiny ball syndrome” (which isn’t nearly as dirty as it sounds) in that I’m easily distracted by whatever “shiny ball” happens to capture my attention at any particular moment. A new viral video making the rounds on Facebook? Shiny ball! The unread posts count on my Feedly page? Shiny Ball!

With that sudden change in focus, the email that I just read giving me a deadline for an upcoming project has now dropped completely out of my mind. It’ll pop back in again five days later, usually at a ridiculous hour like 4am, jolting me awake and inducing a cold sweat that will have me stumbling across the house in the dark to write it on whatever scrap of paper (an envelope, an empty Snickers wrapper, the back of a magazine) happens to still be laying on my desk.

Then I stumbled upon a post titled A To-Do List Trick over at Life as an Artistpreneur and it all clicked for me. So uncomplicated. So clean. So “why didn’t I think of that”?

I immediately went into my software and deleted all the convoluted categories, priority levels and contexts that I had set up over the past couple of years. In their place I created only two priority levels: Urgent and Not Urgent. No more lamenting over whether something is “high” priority, “low” priority or “critical” priority. It’s either urgent, as in it has an expiration date and that expiration date is coming up, or it’s not urgent, as in IT CAN WAIT.

Then I created only two categories: Important and Not Important. I used to have a mind boggling number of categories. I assigned things to specific areas of my business (a design project, advertising/marketing, blogging, partner projects, administrative tasks, etc.) As though I ever just tackled ONE specific area of my business in a particular moment. I never questioned whether that was helpful in any way, I just did it.

Now an item is either important, which for ME tends to be things that I feel are pretty detrimental to my business or a personal/professional relationship, or they’re not important, which I typically use for something that I really like the idea of but I’m not going to lose any sleep over it if I don’t get it done. I would never presume to know what’s important or not important to another person – that’s just how I divvy everything up.

Then I sorted all my tasks into one of the two priorities and one of the two categories, so an item is either Urgent and Important, Urgent and Not Important, Not Urgent but Important, or Not Urgent and Not Important. I work on them in that order.

I created the free, printable PDF file for those of you who like the go the traditional paper route. I also keep one printed out on my desk for more personal tasks and for anything that pops up after I’ve finished working for the night. I transfer those items into my software the next morning when I look it over or start a new sheet.

I’m still sticking with my software for the bulk of my task handling. One of the features that comes in handy on Swift To Do List is the ability to assign hot-keys to user-defined variables, so I’ve assigned hotkeys for each of the four squares. CTRL+1 takes me to the Urgent and Important list, CTRL+2 to the Urgent but Not Important, etc. Once one is clear I move on to the next. Same principle, more geek friendly.

You can download the printable 8.5 x 11″ PDF here:

I love this quote from H. Jackson Brown, author of the Life’s Little Instruction books. I was gifted the original book when I was pregnant with Nicholas, but in later years it became an unwitting victim in one of my book purges. Seeing this quote inspired me to add the compilation to my eBook collection this morning.

One of my creative goals for the past couple of years has been to begin a series of pages for Nicholas sharing bits of inspiration regarding life, personal growth, success and happiness. I think several (hundred) of the instructions contained within this book might finally get the ball rolling for me creatively.

I sat down and created some additional word art to coordinate with the Meadowlark kit, and it’s now available as a free download for fans of the One Little Bird Fan Page on Facebook. Grab it by Sunday, 4/15!

Since it coordinates an existing product I’ve put Meadowlark on sale for 20% off through 4/15, also. Just in case you missed it the first time around!

Enjoy!